Friendship

The World is so empty if one thinks
only of the mountains, rivers, and cities;
but to know someone who thinks and feels with us, and who, though distant
is close to us in spirit, this makes the earth for us an inhabited garden.
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
The true meaning of life is to plant
trees,
under whose shade you do not expect to sit.
- Nelson Henderson

Peace, liberty, brotherhood, prosperity and justice for all.
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Gardening, I told myself, is the most
sociable of hobbies. The very
nature of one's field of activities demands an audience. No one
wants flowers to blush unseen or waste their sweetness.
- Barbara Cheney, Atlantic Monthly (June 1936)
It's the flock, the grove, that
matters. Our responsibility is to species,
not to specimens; to communities, not to individuals.
- Sara Stein, 1998, Noah's Garden
You don't have a garden just for
yourself. You have it to share.
- Augusta Carter
If the earth is man's extended body,
to be loved and respected as one's
own body, those who do no greening of themselves will hardly bring
about the greening of America. The idea of 'greening' involves color,
flowering, freshness of spring, and, above all, respect for what is
organic and vegetative as distinct from the mechanical and metallic.
- Alan Watts, Cloud-Hidden, Whereabouts Unknown, 1968,
p. 111
You ask how many friends I have?
Water and stone, bamboo and pine.
The moon rising over the eastern hill is a joyful comrade.
Besides these five companions, what other pleasure should I ask?
- Yon Sun-do (1587-1671), Korean Poet, Sigo
Out of gardens grow fleeting flowers but
lasting friendships.
- Beverly Rose Hopper
The true spirit of conversation
consists in building on
another man's observation, not overturning it.
- Edward Bulwer-Lytton
Quien a buen arbol se arrima, buena
sombra le cobija.
He who gets close to a good tree, will have a good shade.
- Spanish Proverb
Do not protect yourself by a fence, but rather by your
friends.
- Czech Proverb
How can those who do not garden, who
have no lot in the great
fraternity of those who watch the changing year as it affects the
earth and its growth, how can they keep warm their hearts in winter?
- Francis King
A garden is a public service and
having one a public duty.
It is a man's contribution to the community.
- Richardson Wright, Truly Rural, 1922
To know someone here or there with
whom you can
feel there is understanding in spite of distances or
thoughts unexpressed - that can make this life a garden.
- Goethe
A garden is an expression of Man in a
state of society.
Friendship is a sheltering tree.
- Samuel Taylor Coleridge
Never doubt that a small group of
thoughtful, committed citizens can
change the world. Indeed its the only thing that ever has.
- Margaret Mead
If your garden was
there before you were,
chances are it grew out of many other's dreams.
- Ferris Cook
... garden books are quite unconscious that
besides telling us how
to turn our patch of earth into a garden, they are also expressing the
way their age looks at the world, the state of their society.
- Nan Fairbrother, Men and Gardens, 1956, p. 30
But friendship is precious, not only
in the shade,
but in the sunshine of life; and thanks to a benevolent
arrangement of things, the greater part of life is sunshine.
- Thomas Jefferson
That which is not good for the
beehive
cannot be good for the bees.
- Marcus Aurelius
To love and be loved is to feel the
sun from both sides.
- David Viscott
Aren't gardening people the happiest,
friendliest, and most generous
people you know? Why do you suppose gardening is the #1 hobby
in America? Why are there so many people across the state waiting
in line to become Master Gardeners or joining the Florida Federation
of Garden Clubs, individually, as couples, or as a youth? Why are so
many millions of dollars spent in gardening retail stores every year?
Gardening touches everyone in some way, be it beauty, color, solitude,
food, memories, therapy, land value, exercise (some of the best), to
attract wildlife or just the thrill of making something grow. Its a great
way to have quality time with your family and friends.
- The
Gardener's Touch Sonya Robinson
The community stagnates without the
impulse of the individual.
The impulse dies away without the sympathy of the community.
- William James
I give to thee great gardens, with
trees and vines in the temple of Atuma, I give to
thee lands with olive trees in the city of On. I have furnished them with
gardeners,
and many men to make ready oil of Egypt for kindling the lamps of thy noble temple.
I give to thee trees and wood, date palms, incense, and lotus, rushes, grasses,
and flowers of every land, to set before thy fair face.
- Rameses III, 1155 BCE
With fronds like you, who needs anemones.
If you want one year of prosperity,
grow grain.
If you want ten years of prosperity, grow trees.
If you want one hundred years of prosperity, grow people.
- Chinese Proverb
I will say leave a good quarter of
the time for
feast and celebration or your soul will die.
- Francois Monnet
The object in America is to avoid
contact, to treat all as
foes unless they're known to be friends. Here you have
a million crabs living in a million crevices. ... But the
garden's greatest benefit, I feel, as not relief to the
eyes, but to make the eyes sees our neighbors.
- Paul Fleischman, Seedfolks
Fame is the scentless sunflower, with
gaudy crown of gold;
But friendship is the rose, with sweets in every fold.
- Oliver Wendell Holmes
Go often to the house of a friend;
for weeds soon choke up the unused path.
Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.
- Swedish Proverbs
Be Not Solitary. Be Not Idle.
The best things that can come
out of the garden
are gifts for other people.
- Jamie Jobb
Smile at each other, smile at your
wife, smile at your husband,
smile at your children, smile at each other -- it doesn't matter
who it is -- and that will help you to grow up
in greater love for each other.
- Mother Teresa
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A garden is a friend you can visit any time.
Friends are like the pillars on a
porch. Sometimes they
hold you up, sometimes they lean on you, and sometimes
it's just enough to know that they are standing by.
- Author Unknown
Friends are flowers in life's garden.
Be courteous to all, but intimate
with few, and let those few be well
tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a
plant
of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity
before it is entitled to the appellation.
- George Washington
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The purpose of seasonal festivals is
periodically to revive the
topocosm. Gaster coined this word from the Greek - topo for
place and cosmos for world order. Topocosm means "the
world order of a particular place." The topocosm is the entire
complex of any given locality conceived as a living organism -
not just the human community but the total community - the
plants, animals and soils of the place. The topocosm is not
only the actual and present living community but also that
continuous entity of which the present community
is but the current manifestation.
- Dolores La Chapelle, Ritual is Essential
Take out the weeds from some wild
spot,
remove each stone that shows,
plant seeds of friendship good and deep,
and tend the plant that grows.
- Mary Freeman Startzman

Friendship is the shadow of the
evening,
which strengthens with the setting sun of life.
- Jean de La Fontaine
I have been much afflicted again
lately by visitors . . . and they
gave me to understand that if they had had the arranging of the
garden it would have been finished long ago - whereas I don't
believe a garden is ever finished. They have all gone now,
thank heaven.
- Elizabeth von Arnim, Elizabeth & her German Garden,
1898
Gardening can be a compelling
cooperative activity.
Your best harvest may be the pleasure you get from working
with family and friends. There's never a shortage of things to
do, no limit to the lessons that can be learned, especially for
children, and there's always plenty of credit to go around,
even for the mistakes.
- Steven Willson
You're giving a part
of yourself when you grow a plant
and give it to somebody else.
- Art Scarpa
Snowflakes are one of natures
most fragile things,
but just look what they can do when they stick together.
- Vista M. Kelly
But there's more than just solving
the how-to problems.
I've often said that if we're going to have a real rural
renaissance, I'd just take the solving of the how-to
problems for granted. The first thing I'd provide
would be festivals.
- Ralph Borsodi
If by some chance I
woke up tomorrow morning with a crown on my head
and a magic wand in my hand .... I would never pay farmers not to farm.
Or dairymen not to raise cattle.
- Beverly Beckham
Go often to the house of a friend;
for weeds soon choke up the unused path.
- Scandinavian Proverb
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