Home and Garden:
Our Sense of Place


Compiled by Michael P. Garofalo

 

 

 


Stay, stay at home, my heart, and rest;
Home-keeping hearts are happiest.
-  Henry W. Longfellow,  1807 - 1882

 

 

 

 

Happiness grows at our own firesides,
and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens.
-   Douglas Jerrold

 

 

 

I do not understand how anyone can live
without one small place of enchantment to turn to.
-  Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings

 

 

 

 

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If you should look for this place after a handful of lifetimes:
Perhaps of my planted forest a few
May stand yet, dark-leaved Australians or the coast cypress, haggard
With storm-drift; but fire and the axe are devils.
Look for foundations of sea-worn granite, my fingers had the art
To make stone love stone, you will find some remnant.

-  Robinson and Una Jeffers build a home on the Big Sur coast of California, Tor House, 1928

 

 

 

 

 

I would not a bit mind sleeping in the cool grass in summer,
and when winter came on sheltering myself by the warm
close-thatched rick, or under the penthouse of a great barn,
provided I had love in my heart.
-  Oscar Wilde

 

 

 

 

 

You leave home to seek your fortune and, when you get it, 
you go home and share it with your family.
-   Anita Baker

 

 

 

 

 

Nature is not a place to visit, it is home.   
-   Gary Snyder 

 

 

 

 

 

I never had any other desire so strong, and so like covetousness, as that ...  
I might be master at last of a small house and a large garden, with very 
moderate conveniences joined to them, and there dedicate the remainder 
of my life to the culture of them and the study of nature.
-   Abraham Cowley, circa 1655

 

 

 

 

 

Me and my books in the same apartment, like a gherkin in its vinegar.
-  Gustave Flaubert

 

 

 

 

Hospitality is a form of worship.
-  The Talmud

 

 

 

 

It is easy to embellish the pillars and insert beams in a home
but hard to ge the huai tree to grow.
Yuan Yeh

 

 

 

 

Never be the only one, except, possibly, in your own home.
-   Alice Walker

 

 

 

 

There's no place like home,
there's no place like home,
there's no place like home.
-  Frank L. Baum, The Wizard of Oz

 

 

 

 

You could walk out of the house, 
but you always returned home.
-   Witold Rybczynski, Home: A Short History of an Idea

 

 

 

 

 


Farms and in castles, in homes, studies, and cloisters - where sensible 
people manage to live relatively lusty and decent lives, as moral as they 
must be, as free as they may be, and as masterly as they can be.  If we 
only knew it, this elusive arrangement is happiness.
-  Erik H. Erikson

 

 

 

 

 

We need two homes, a green one and a brown one, a grown one 
and a built one, two worlds in tension.
-   Robert Harbison, Eccentric Spaces

 

 

 

 

 


A garden has a curious innocent way of consuming
cash while all the time you are under the illusion that
you are spending nothing.
-   Esther Meynell

 

 

 

 

The relationship between man and space is none other 
than dwelling, strictly thought and spoken.
-   Martin Heidegger, Buidling, Dwelling, Thinking

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Man is a peculiar creature. He spends a fortune making his home
insect-proof and air-conditioned, and then eats in the yard.
-  Author Unknown

 

 

 

 

 

... a hermitage, which is about an acre of ground - an island, planted with all variety of
trees, shrubs and flowers that will grow in this country, abundance of little winding walks,
differently embellished with little seats and banks; in the midst is place a hermit's cell,
made of the roots of trees, the floor is paved with pebbles, there is a couch made of
matting, and little wooden stools, a table with a manuscript on it, a pair of spectacles,
a leathern bottle; and hung up in different parts, an hourglass, a weatherglass and
several mathematical instruments, a shelf of books, another of wood platters and
bowls, another of earthen ones, in short everything that you might imagine
necessary for a recluse.
-  Mrs. Delany, 1748

 

 

 

 

 

A garden is a place arranged for promenades and at the same time
for the recreation of the eyes.  But it is also an accessory to the
house, serving it as an accompaniment, an environment; and,
within certain limits, it is simply another apartment, an annex
of the house.  Therefore, how can the art which built and
adorn the dwelling be refused the right to interfere in

this exterior house?

-   Vitet

 

 

 

 

 

Where is home?  Home is where the heart can laugh without shyness.
Home iw where the heart's tears can dry at their own pace.
-   Vernon Baker

 

 

 

 

What is the use of a House if you haven't got a 
tolerable planet to put it on?
-  Henry David Thoreau

 

 

 

 

Where we love is home - home that our feet may leave,
but not our hearts.
-   Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.  

 

 

 

 

 

For my own part I am pleased enough with surfaces - in fact they 
alone seem to me to be of much importance.  Such things for 
example as ... the bark of a tree, the arbrasion of granite and sand,
the plunge of clear water into a pool, the face of the wind - what
else is there?  What else do we need?
-   Edward Abbey, Desert Solitaire

 

 

 

 

We must make our homes centers of compassion 
and forgive endlessly.  
-  Mother Teresa

 

 

 

 

Home is where the books are.
-   Richard Burton

 

 

 

 

 

"In this study, we found that the more vegetation in a common space, the stronger 
the neighborhood social ties near that space," wrote Frances E. Kuo, William Sullivan 
and Liesette Brunson of the U. of I. and Rebekah Levine Coley of the University of 
Chicago. "Compared to residents living adjacent to relatively barren spaces, 
individuals living adjacent to greener common spaces had more social activities 
and more visitors, knew more of their neighbors, reported their neighbors were 
more concerned with helping and supporting one another, and had stronger 
feelings of belonging."

 

 

 

 

 

People who live in glass houses shouldn't.
-  J. S. Singer

 

 

 

 

 

We would like only, for once, to get to where we are already.
-   Martin Heidegger, Language

 

 

 

 

 

A dwelling should be not a retreat from space, but life in space.
-   L. Hoholy-Nagy, The New Vision

 

 

 

 

 

Suburbia is where the developer bulldozes out the trees,
then names the streets after them.
-  Bill Vaughan

 

 

 

 

If the day ever comes when they know who
They are, they may know better where they are.
-   Robert Frost,  A Cabin in the Clearing

 

 

 

 

 

Though there are other ways to finance your gardening, one successful  
way is to choose carefully whom you marry.  A good and generous man 
is needed, one who knows how to make money and enjoys sharing it, one 
who himself is not interested in the actual pursuit of gardening but likes 
to be proud of the premises.
-   Emily Whaley,  Mrs. Whaley's Charleston Garden

 

 

 

 

Perhaps home is not a place
but simply an irrevocable condition.
-  James Baldwin

 

 

 

 

The sun at home warms better than the sun elsewhere.
-   Albanian proverb

 

 

 

 

Place and the scale of space must be measured against 
our bodies and their capabilities.
-   Gary Snyder, The Practice of the Wild

 

 

 

 

 

It is easier to pull down than to build up.
-   Latin Proverb

 

 

 

 

 

Once in his life a man ought to concentrate his mind upon
the remembered earth.  He ought to give himself up to a 
particular landscape in his experience; to look at it from as
many angles as he can, to wonder upon it, and dwell upon it.
-   N. Scott Momaday

 Red Bluff Notebooks

 

 

 

 

The strength of a nation derives from the integrity of the home.
-  Confucius

 

 

 

Knowing where and who are intimately linked.
-   Gary Snyder, Re-Inhabitation

 

 

 

 

 

If delight may provoke men's labour, what greater delights is there
then to behold the earth as apparelled with plants, as with a robe
of imbroidered worke, set with orient pearles, and garnished with
great diversitie of rare and costly jewels?  The delight is great but
the use greater, and joyned often with necessitie.
-   John Gerarde

 

 

 

 

 

When men do not love their hearth, nor reverence their thresholds,
it is a sign that they have dishonoured both ... Our God is a house-hold God,
as well as a heavenly one; He has an altar in every man's dwelling.
-   John Ruskin (1819-1900), The Seven Lamps of Architecture, 1908

 

 

 

 

Home is the most popular, and will be the most 
enduring of all earthly establishments. 
-   Channing Pollock

 

 

 

 

A physician can bury his mistakes, an architect can only
advise his clients to plant vines.
-   Frank Lloyd Wright

 

 

 

 

To dwell means to belong to a given place.
-   Christian Norberg-Schulz, The Concept of Dwelling

 

 

 

 

 

This cabin, Mary, in my sight appears,
Built as it has been in our waning years,
A rest afforded to our weary feet,
Preliminary to - the last retreat.
-  William Cowper, 1793
An inscription for the small cabin, a Hermitage, in the author's garden

 

 

 

 

 

A man travels the world over in search of what he needs
and returns home to find it.
-   George Moore

 

 

 

 

 

The impulse for much writing is homesickness.  You are trying 
to get back home, and in your writing you are invoking that home, 
so you are assuaging the homesickness. 
-   Joan Didion

 

 

 

 

 

Home is the place where when you have to go there, 
they have to take you in. 
-   Robert Frost

 

 

 

 

 

Dwelling is not primarily inhabiting but taking care
of and creating that space within which something
comes into its own and flourishes.
-   Martin Heidegger

 

 

 

 

 

E'vn in the stifling bosom of the town,
A garden, in which nothing thrives, has charms
That soothes the rich possessor; much consol'd,
That here and there some sprigs of mournful mint,
Or nightshade, or valerian, grace the well
He cultivates.

-  William Cowper, The Task, 1785

 

 

 

 

 

 

A house is a machine for living in.
-   Le Corbursier. Towards a New Architecture

 

 

 

 

 

Our relation to the natural world takes place in a place.
-   Gary Snyder, The Practice of the Wild

 

 

 

 

 

Peace and a well-built house cannot be bought too dearly.
-   Danish proverb

 

 

 

 

 

We shall not cease from exploration
And the end of all our exploring
Will be to arrive at where we started
And know the place for the first time.
-   T. S. Eliot,  Little Gidding

 

 

 

 

To feel at home, stay at home.
-   Clifton Fadiman

 

 

 

 

Nature comes home to one most when he is at home; the stranger
and traveler finds her a stranger and traveler also.  One's own
landscape comes in time to be a sort of outlying part of himself;
he has sowed himself broadcast upon it, and it reflects his own
moods and feelings; he is sensitive to the verge of the horizon: cut
those trees, and he bleeds; mar those hills, and he suffers.  How has
the farmer planted himself in his fields; builded himself into his
stone walls, and evoked the sympathy of the hills by his struggle! 
This home feeling, this domestication of nature, is important to
the observer.  This is the birdlime with which he catches the bird;
this is the private door that admits him behind the scenes."
-   John Burroughs,  1837 - 1921

 

 

 

 

 

It is not down in any map; true places never are.
-  Herman Melville, Moby Dick

 

 

 

 

The home is not the one tame place in the world of adventure. 
It is the one wild place in the world of rules and set tasks. 
-   Gilbert K. Chesterton

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Links and Recommended Reading

 

 

Getting Back Into Place: Toward a Renewed Understanding of the Place-World.   By Edward S. Casey.  
Bloomington, Indiana, Indiana University Press, 1993.  Bibliography, extensive notes, 403 pages.
ISBN:  0253313317.   


Green Living Home
   


Home: A Short History of an Idea.   By Witold Rybczynski.  


Rustic Retreats: A Build-It-Yourself Guide.   By David and Jeanie Stiles.  Pownal, Vermont, Storey
Books, 1998.  Bibliography, 153 pages.  ISBN: 1580170358. 

 

 

 

 

 

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